my motto:

Girls should just have fun and not act cool, if they're trying to, so as to win over the hearts of many people who would usually look up to cool people, during their youth and esp be themselves because they shouldn't be wasting their time being inexperienced and find themselves under the category of 'deprived-of-girly-fun' 10 years later when they're matured and having a career and of course, the best time to be cool all they want.a